Who am I?
I’m an autistic queer who loves swords and flowcharts! I’m good at organizing information, and I’m passionate about education. I have enough fitness certifications to sink a small boat, and I’m a volunteer EMT in my free time.
I’m not good at archery, but I really enjoy doing it, especially traditional recurve archery. I’m also learning how to draw and it’s hard but so rewarding.
Why did I put this website together?
I wanted to put this website together for a few reasons:
First, I wanted to give back to the community that helped me rebuild my relationship to communication and accountability. The Consent Blueprint started as something I made for myself — a way to organize, understand, and practice the skills I was learning. Sharing it felt like a way to pay that forward.
Second, I wanted to share a neurodivergent perspective on communication. For many of us, “reading the room” or navigating grey areas doesn’t come naturally — and a structured approach can make something that feels overwhelming feel manageable.
This site is where I bring together the things I care about most: structure, learning, and repair. I’m not a consent educator or an expert. I’m just someone who believes that clarity and structure can enable high-quality practice. I’ve also experienced that consistent, high-quality practice radically transformed my life and brought me closer to the person I want to be.
Where do I find the Blueprint?
Right this way!