Community Resources

The following are many of the resources that helped me to create the Consent Blueprint. I wanted to provide them here

Authentic Relating by Ryel Kestano

A practical manual on honest communication and building deep, human connection.

ISBN: 9798986412702

Betty Martin and the Wheel of Consent

Somatic educator and creator of the Wheel of Consent framework.

https://bettymartin.org/

Bonobo Network

Community network supporting sex-positive and consensual non-monogamous connections and education.

https://www.bonobonetwork.com/

Consent Academy

Organization offering workshops, resources, and consulting on consent culture and safety.

https://www.consent.academy/

Consent Dojo

An ongoing series where Midori interviews special guests about consent. Can provide a missing link between those in accountability processes and resources.

https://fhp-inc.com/consent-dojo/

Cuddle Party

Facilitated events focused on non-sexual touch, communication, and consent education.

https://cuddleparty.com/

DBT Skills Training Manual by Dr. Marsha M. Linehan

A manual for applying Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) tools in many contexts

ISBN: 9781462516995

DEAR MAN Framework by Dr. Marsha M. Linehan

A specific Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) tool for assertive communication while maintaining relationships and self-respect.

https://dbt.tools/interpersonal_effectiveness/dear-man.php

Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon

An inclusive, illustrated guide to sex, communication, and queer intimacy.

ISBN: 9780983830955

Kink Educator Code of Conduct

Outlines standards and ethical guidelines for educators and producers in kink.

https://www.thekecc.org/fullVersion.html

Kink Education Minimum Standards

A more digestible, stripped-down version of the Kink Educator Code of Conduct hosted by the Meerkat Agenda LLC.

https://meerkatagenda.com/kems/index.html

Marcia Baczynski

Teaches skills for empowered communication, boundaries, and conscious intimacy.

https://askingforwhatyouwant.com/

Midori

International educator in sexuality, kink, and creative intimacy. Hosts Consent Dojo & regular Zoom office hours.

https://planetmidori.com/

Sunny Megatron

Neurodivergent Clinical Sexologist and media personality offering accessible, inclusive sex and kink education and coaching.

https://sunnymegatron.com/

Special Topics in Being A Human by S. Bear Bergman

A heartfelt, queer-centered book on care, connection, and showing up for others.

ISBN: 9781551528540

Spectrum Services

Provides autism and neurodivergence assessment and connection to resources in New York, Washington D.C., California, Connecticut, New Jersey & Florida.

https://spectrumservicesnyc.com/

The Feelings Wheel by Dr. Gloria Willcox

Tool for identifying and expanding emotional vocabulary.

https://allthefeelz.app/feeling-wheel/

Wheel of Consent workshops

Calendar of classes to learn and practice the Wheel of Consent in group or individual workshop settings.

https://www.schoolofconsent.org/calendar/